While Neena Gupta won the audience’s heart with her character portrayal of an elderly mother who becomes pregnant for the third time even as her first son is soon to get married in Badhaai Ho, revealed that the film’s lead, Ayushmann Khurrana, was against casting her. During her appearance on Kaun Banega Crorepati in 2022, she told host and actor Amitabh Bachchan, “Ayushmann initially said, ‘No, Neena Gupta shouldn’t be cast because she doesn’t look like mom. She’s too hot.’ So, the makers were not taking me. As they called me to their office, I asked their production assistant what I should wear to look like the character. So, since the character was middle class, I wore a salwar kameez of my cook, house help. So, I asked them, ‘Do I look alright?’. They were impressed by the fact that I made the effort.”
Eventually, the makers also watched , a short film with , in which she plays a simple, middle-class woman. “Everyone saw it, including Ayushmann, and then they decided on me,” said Gupta.
Taking a cue from her revelation, let’s understand what it takes to rise when professional competency is questioned.
Gupta’s eventual casting in the film and its subsequent success highlight the importance of perseverance. “Her journey illustrates that with resilience, adaptability, and a commitment to excellence, professionals can transform challenges into stepping stones toward success,” said Dr Chandni Tugnait, psychotherapist, director, Gateway of Healing.
Remember, in the face of professional opposition, it’s crucial to remain steadfast, seek growth opportunities, and trust in one’s abilities, advised Dr Tugnait.
“By doing so, individuals can not only overcome obstacles but also pave the way for future achievements and fulfillment,” said Dr Tugnait.
To prove yourself, stay consistent in your efforts and your actions with your values.
“Focus on continuous growth, not immediate approval. Take setbacks as learning opportunities and keep refining your skills. Stay disciplined, set clear goals, and maintain a positive mindset. Surround yourself with supportive people who believe in your vision and keep your long-term goals in sight,” said Dr Tugnait.
